Archive for July, 2009

How to manage our self images

Posted on July 28th, 2009, by the mum

Last Saturday, I went clothes shopping with my dear husband. Yes you heard that right, my husband actually went clothes shopping with me.  After he bought a shirt on sale that he liked, he encouraged me to look around for new clothes. I must provide some background – you see, while I would love to [...]

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The Gift

Posted on July 23rd, 2009, by the mum

It is a gift to be parents. I am grateful for having this gift bestowed upon me 4 times. 4 lovely babies, 4 times the joy. I sometimes forget how blessed I am and how great God is. When I am dragged down by life or by work, I forget that I have 4 concrete [...]

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The Evil Necessity of Business Trips

Posted on July 21st, 2009, by the mum

Business trips are necessary, especially for the small island of Singapore.  “Go out into the world and find your fortune”, said the mother of the 3 little pigs. The world has shrunk.  The advancement of the aviation industry has made business travel easier than it has ever been in the past.  From Singapore, you only [...]

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The Lift Incident

Posted on July 16th, 2009, by the mum

As the littlest one was getting better, my dear husband was taking him for a ride this morning while sending my eldest to school.  As everyone was getting dressed, number 4 (I used to think using numbers was appalling but then turned out it was just easier this way) was excited and took out his [...]

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Ever had a sick kid at home?

Posted on July 16th, 2009, by the mum

Ever had a sick kid at home?  Since I have 4 kids, my chances of getting that regularly is probably higher than the normal household.  In Singapore, it is very uncommon to have 4 kids in one household.  Most families only have 2 or perhaps 3.  More couples are opting to only have 1 child [...]

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No

Posted on July 12th, 2009, by the mum

“No,” I said to my daughter, “I’m sorry but I can’t.”.  She had requested to do a family activity before bedtime.  Now to put things into perspective, the regular bedtime in my household is 9pm for the kids.  It was 9.30pm when she asked.  The late bedtime is due to the fact that the family [...]

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My Favourite Quotes

Posted on July 10th, 2009, by the mum

Here are 10 of the most inspiring quotes for a working mother like me.  May they put the fire back in you and inspire you to take what you are doing with your work and family further than ever before! “A mother is not a person to lean on, but a person to make leaning [...]

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How to draw the line between work and home

Posted on July 8th, 2009, by the mum

That’s the million dollar question for us working mothers! It is often very difficult to compartmentalise.  This is not something I do very naturally.  I have to consciously make the effort to remember and draw the line.  I fall down often on this point – I allowed my stress at work to spill over into [...]

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The Challenge of a Working Mother

Posted on July 6th, 2009, by the mum

I have 4 kids and a full time job.  Every single day is a challenge, an adventure.  In this little island in the far East, our fast paced lives and the social norm of having a dual income family, has changed the dynamics of the traditional view of a family.  I grew up in a [...]

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